Not just consume, but Create!

We spend a major portion of our time on internet. It could be for various reasons, but one thing that everyone does is ‘consume content’. It could be in the form of watching a video, reading an article, or something else.

There is no harm in consuming content as such. Imagine what you just consumed (watched a video, read an article), you share it with others. It opens a door of unlimited possibilities. Someone might benefit from what you shared which they might not have discovered on their own.

Moreover, if you share your perspective or your opinion on something you read, there’s a possibility that your take brings a new dimension to the topic. Your perspective has the potential to bring a change in someone’s life.

Next time you come across a video or you read something interesting, don’t just close the tab and move to next thing. Instead, share it in your network, even better share your opinion.

Someone out there might just be waiting to watch / read your opinion of something they are consuming! So don’t just consume, create.

Losing weight is easy! – No kidding

You might think I’m crazy when I say losing weight is easy. Seriously, I’m not blabbering. I’m speaking from personal experience. During the covid-19 pandemic, like most people, I gained a lot of weight. I went from 74 kg to 89 kg. 15 kg, that’s a lot.

At first, even the thought of losing weight felt like a distant dream. I did what any sane person would do in my position – I started dieting. I cut down on my food as much as I could. However, it wasn’t easy because on some days, I would eat more than I should have. I was losing weight, but the progress was too slow and difficult to maintain. Sometimes it felt like I wasn’t making any progress at all.

I started looking for other ways to lose weight quickly. I supplemented my dieting (to whatever extent I was able to do) with workouts. Initially, I started cycling. It certainly accelerated my weight loss, but it wasn’t working as I liked it to be. Because cycling helped me make friends, and where there are friends, there are parties (mini – celebrations :D). Eating at parties cancelled out the progress I was making with both cycling and dieting. So, if you come across a fat cyclist and wonder why they are fat even when they cycle, now you know why.

While I was going through all this, I kept looking for sustainable ways to lose weight. That’s when I came across the idea of ‘Intermittent fasting’. It was fascinating, and a lot of chatter was happening about it on Twitter. If I remember correctly, Paras Chopra (Wingify’s founder) also talked about it on Twitter and also showed its results. I was super curious to learn more, so I dived deep into the topic and learned more about its working. My conviction got stronger when I met a doctor (through the cycling club) who had been practicing intermittent fasting for many years, and it had worked wonders for her overall health and weight maintenance.

I followed intermittent fasting religiously for four months and combined it with workouts such as running and cycling. That’s how I was able to lose so much weight.

I followed a fasting routine of more than 16 hours, where I would eat my last meal of the day by 3 pm and only have half a glass of skimmed milk at night.

How am I doing today?

I haven’t been working out for the last 3 months, and my intermittent fasting practice is sporadic. Even after all this, I am still around the same weight of 74 kg. And I’m super happy 🙂

Asking the Right Questions

It’s a common belief that whoever knows all the answers is a genius. No one talks about the art of asking questions, well, the right questions. If you don’t ask the right questions, no matter if a genius answered them, they would still be wrong answers.

That’s what makes it so important to learn the art of asking the right questions. Asking questions doesn’t just show your desire, curiosity and intention to learn more about something but also your own intellectuality. You can only ask well-thoughtful questions on a specific topic if you understand it well.

I happen to be in an interview today. The candidate was very apt in answering most of the questions I asked. He was impressive and super fun to talk with. However, when the time came for him to ask questions that he had for me in general, or around the problems that were asked to solve in the interview. There were only a few. It was hard for me to tell if that was due to the candidate’s disinterest or if he lacked the skill.

The conversation could have turned out to be more meaningful and interactive otherwise. Doesn’t matter the premise, asking questions, especially, thoughtful questions is a great way to spark some creative thoughts and ideas.

Simple Tip to Safeguard Yourself From Online Fraud

There is no doubt that the majority of our day-to-day transactions happen online these days. With the arrival of UPI, online transactions have reached an unprecedented scale from where there is no turning back. Since it’s easy for people to transact online, that makes it very lucrative for people with bad intentions to also take advantage of this convenience. No matter how much awareness is spread around to safely transact online, people are getting duped all the time.

I have noticed a common pattern across online frauds. A fraudster creates a sense of urgency and leads the person to make a silly mistake. They make sure that you don’t get enough time to think. Interestingly, fraudsters target a large subset of people as the chances of anyone getting trapped are quite slim. So they aim to gain as much money as possible in every shot! In other words, they dupe users who have a good bank balance and who commonly do large transactions online.

I’m going to share one simple safety tip here that could save you (or at least give you enough time to clearly think) from getting into the fraudster’s trap. Here’s the tip:

Apply Transaction Limits on your Debit/Credit Card and Account

That’s it! It’s that simple. You would be surprised that the majority of people don’t even know about this feature, let alone use it. What’s great about this feature is you can apply specific limits for each transaction mode such as Swipe, online, etc.

All of these limits can be changed at any time using net banking or a mobile app.

Bonus Tip: Turn off the transaction modes that you rarely use on your card. For example, I'm never going to withdraw cash using my credit card, I have disabled that transaction mode completely. 

Hope it helps.

Life is Fragile

Whenever I hear about someone passing away at a very young age or unexpectedly, it acts as a reminder to not forget the fact that ‘life is fragile’. I don’t think any of us here ignore this fact deliberately. It’s just that sometimes we get so much caught up in the grinding of our day-to-day lives that we completely forget about it.

In my opinion, people are split into two extreme ideologies when it comes to how they shape their lives around this fact. On one side, people live by so the called quote “Live every day like it’s your last” and hustle day in and day out trying to squeeze as much juice as they can out of their lives as if it’s some kind of fruit. On the other end, people take their life for granted and endlessly push things to the future thinking they will get to it someday. And we all know what happens in this case, we have been there.

You might be thinking, what’s the point? The point is to find a balance. If you are thinking that I’m going to share some magical solutions/frameworks on how to find balance, I’m sorry, but you would be disappointed. Because there is no one size fits all kind of answer to this question. It is highly subjective and driven by a person’s moral values and priorities.

I wrote this piece not to find a perfect answer, but to remind myself (and maybe you) about the fragility of life.

Cross your Limit

Have you ever wondered how little we know about ourselves? I get amazed and at the same time laugh at myself when I realize how crazily wrong notions I had about what I thought to be my limits/capacities. I never paid much attention to the mess I created in my mind until I had to.

Lately, I have been maintaining a relatively active lifestyle. I have been trying to get to this for a very long time. I don’t know why, but my procrastination and laziness always won the fight in my head. But finally, I got over it and began my fitness journey with cycling.

I used to do a lot of cycling in 2016. At that time, the longest ride I did on my bike was 72 km. This number kind of became a mental limit for my capability. Until recently, I broke this record and set a new personal record of 100km and that too with around 800m of elevation gain. This experience made me realize how little I know about myself. It would be unfair, to say the least, that I completely underestimated myself. It seems our mind is always looking to define boundaries for itself, no matter the activity. These boundaries easily become barriers that are difficult to break through.

Every moment of our lives is shaping the boundaries of our minds. Since it is hard to differentiate if something is an actual limitation or mental barrier, the only way to find out is to try to break out it. You never know what’s on the other side until you get to the other side.

So what boundaries do you have in your mind that are acting like barriers? Think for yourself!

What do you fear the most?

Fear. An emotion we are born with and live most of our life with. We all have our fair shares of things we are fearful about. Whenever someone is asked for the list of things they fear from, you would get answers like, fear of death, cockroaches, height, water, etc.

The responses to this question follows a common theme. We almost always talk about our fears in terms of something ”external”, which makes me feel that the answer is either incomplete or deceptive. And there is more to it.

There is a troubling real answer buried under the cover of so called common answer. I believe, for most people, the thing that would top the fear list is ”themselves”. Yes, believe it or not, people fear the most from their own true inner self.

Find it hard to believe? Let’s do an exercise. Try sitting for an hour with yourself, doing absolutely nothing. When I say nothing, I literally mean it. Just sit with your thoughts. No books, TV, or any type of activity is allowed.

Once you’ve done it, let me know how long were you able to do this exercise. Was it super comfortable or extremely hard?

Comparing Yourself With Others? – How & Why We Do It?

From the time we are born, we find ourselves being compared with others. Mothers compare their baby’s complexion, weight, and whatnot with other babies around. Whenever a kid does something upsetting, parents don’t hesitate to use comparisons to stop the act. Your poor (or sometimes even 99.5%) grades bring the wrath of comparisons upon you. Over the course of our childhood and teenage life, we go through countless comparisons. Especially, at such a tender age, these experiences shape our brains in an unexpected way so much so that we think it is our innate nature to compare ourselves with others.

Social media sites have exacerbated the problem on an almost irreversible scale. The problem is not that on social media people only post the moments that would catch the most eyeballs, bringing likes and comments. But the fact is people are seeing a lot more of what’s happening in other people’s lives than they are supposed to and care about. As humans, for most of our comparisons, we compare our good moments with others’ best (at least from the look of it) moments, social media has made it a more common and unnoticeable behavior.

I would admit that I have been both a victim and a perpetrator. I don’t know who is to blame here. It has been passed down from generation to generation without any thought and will continue to be. But there is hope. We may not ever be able to eliminate this behavior altogether, but we can put conscious effort and thinking to bring it under control and pass a bit less of it to the next generation.

It took me a lot of time to notice this behavior and put in deliberate thought and effort to do something about it. My complete perspective changed when I read a Twitter thread from Naval Ravikant on comparison. I couldn’t find the exact tweet, but I can explain it in my own words. He said, when we compare ourselves with others, deep inside we only compare those selective aspects of an individual that we desire. For example, I wish I had such great communication skills as him/her. I wish I could have such a prestigious title/job like his. It’s an unfair and incomplete approach to desire and comparison. If we really want to compare (though we shouldn’t), then we should desire to take everything that person has both good and bad. When desiring to have muscles like someone, desire to do as much hard work and grinding as they had put into building it.

You want to own a business like someone else. Don’t just desire to have the outcome or the good part of the business. But also desire to take on the sleepless nights, worries, and stress that comes along with running a business.

I would call this a “full and fair comparison”. It’s hard to get away from comparison habit. However, the least you can do is change your approach to it. Whenever you find yourself being compared or are comparing, switching your approach would make you realize how biased we are in our comparison.

Interesting Stuff #1 – Money, Speculation & Panic

I love scouting and reading interesting content on the internet. If I have to categorize my time spent on the internet between different types of stuff to do like watching videos, scrolling social media, etc., I can confidently confirm that I have spent far more time on reading interesting content than on random browsing.

Sometimes I get too excited from reading a particular piece of content and happen to share it with my friends and family. They often post this question, “Rajan, how do you find all this content?”. My answer always is, “I don’t know how, I just came across it somehow :D”.

Surprisingly, a lot of my friends actually loved reading what I shared. I was looking for a way which could let a lot more people benefit from and enjoy, the content that I personally enjoy so much. And that’s why I wrote this page as I’m going to share some interesting links going forward through my blog and spread the joy.

I cannot commit to any specific frequency, but I can assure you that whenever I come across something fun and worth reading I’ll bring it here.

So here we go!

The nothingness of Money

It is very common that most of us stop running after money only when we realize the finiteness of our mortality, in other words, until we are on our deathbed or diagnosed with a terminal disease. This article would take you on an engaging journey with its beautiful graphics and storyline to elaborate on the idea of “Nothingness of Money”.

Speculation: A Game You Can’t Win

Do you check your portfolio multiple times a day? If you are, then this article is for you. I loved the example author has taken in this article on how climbing a mountain with its peak in sight got a group of friends excited, which on reaching, faded immediately because it turned out to be a resting spot than the peak. This article reflects on how we don’t fully appreciate the effort we had put into reaching a milestone if that milestone is not the destination.

How to Not Panic

Markets are crashing everywhere. Inflation is skyrocketing. It is obvious to feel scared and uncertain about the future. This article talks exactly about how to navigate through these tough times and refrain from making silly and irreversible mistakes.

That’s all for today, folks. See you in the next one!

How to get better at saving money?

When it comes to money, most people talk about how to invest your money, and how to make money from money. But very rarely does someone focuses on learning the most crucial part of personal finance i.e. saving money. I think it’s not their fault. It’s a common misconception in the finance industry that majority of people are good at saving money, which is far from the truth.

In this article, I’ll share some of the strategies that anyone could implement in their life and get better at saving money. Since you have come to this article, I would assume that you understand the importance of saving money and won’t reiterate it. Let’s jump right in and learn about some of the most interesting ways to get better at saving money.

Track your Expenses

Someone has rightly said,

You can’t improve something you don’t measure.

In our context, it simply means you cannot get better at saving money if you don’t track your expenses. After all, whatever is left after expenses is your savings. If you don’t know where and how your money is being spent then how do you even know if you can save some money. And even if you are already saving some money then also you have no idea how much you could actually save. That’s why it’s important to keep track of expenses.

Tracking expenses help in identifying our spending patterns and bad habits that go unnoticed because they have become a part of our innate personality. There are tons of amazing expense tracking apps available that you can use to get started. Expense tracking is not what it looks like on the surface, it’s more than that. It is also about raising your self-awareness of your lifestyle and money habits. Take control of your expenses in your hand. Start tracking your expenses immediately.

Maintain a separate expense account

If you are serious about saving money, this idea could be a game-changer for you. Let’s consider you have an account where you receive your salary (or income). Normally, people use that same account for paying rent, buying groceries or any other living expense. It is not a bad idea and there is nothing wrong with it if you are someone who knows what they are doing with their money and has it under control in terms of your expectation of how much money you would be left with by the end of the month. Though, I know that’s not the case for most people.

If you are like me who mostly survives the last week of the month in fear of running out of money before the next salary, then you should definitely open another bank account, separate from your primary income account. Now you may be wondering, what to do with that account and how would it solve your problem.

Let’s call your salary bank account as income account and a separate bank account as expense account. The names of the account are self-explanatory. We would only use our expense bank account for all the expenses, no matter what!

How to set up accounts for optimum saving?

In order to get started with this arrangement, we would transfer a fixed amount of money (our estimated monthly expenses), at the beginning of the month, from income account to expense account. Doing this explicitly would force you to consciously think and observe how much money you spend from your income. And in case you run out of money in your expense account, you would have to again consciously think if your expense estimate was wrong or if you are making an unplanned expense. Though you can always replenish your expense account at any point in time, it is highly recommended to do it only once a month.

In the first few months of this setup, you may find yourself replenishing your expense account more than once or twice a month and that’s completely fine. However, you should take each replenishment as an opportunity to learn more about your spending patterns and tweak your estimates accordingly so that you maintain spending discipline and also avoid the hassle of money transfer.

How to build self-discipline? – Automation to the rescue!

Since I’m an engineer, my mind rarely lives without finding inefficiencies in the system and replacing them with automation wherever possible. That’s exactly what I did for our setup. We’ll set up a standing instruction (auto-debit/transfer) from our income account to expense account to automatically transfer money on a specific day of every month. Good!

Now you might very well know how bad humans are at staying self-disciplined, that’s why we’ll make a few things a little harder to do so that the friction in doing them could push us back from doing it at all. Touching our income account unnecessarily for anything such as direct cash withdrawals, online shopping and any other activity is sinful. So we’ll block our debit card (ATM) using net banking. Don’t worry, it won’t block your card permanently, it’ll just disable it for usage.

Next, we’ll uninstall the bank app from the phone to avoid quick access to money transfer functionality. We also need to disable the online shopping, POS, international swipe etc., options for the debit card and net banking using the bank’s website to avoid accidental usage of income account for expenses. Most banks provide these capabilities today, if you are not able to find it on your bank’s net banking website, you can skip it. Last but not the least, remove the account from UPI apps as this is the most common way you would accidentally use your income account for expenses.

Once you are done with all the above changes, you are all set. Your income account should only be used for sending money to other accounts, including expense account and that too using only the net banking website, so our desired goal is achieved.

Spend in Cash

These days making expensive and unnecessary purchases through online shopping and online payments are easy and uncontrollable. It doesn’t let you feel about the size or importance of your expenses. It’s only later you realize what you have done. Not just that, sometimes small online expenses/purchases here and there mount to overspending. It’s not entirely your fault. Because spending money online is so easy and unnoticeable because ultimately it just changes some numbers on your screen. It doesn’t feel like you gave something that took so much effort to earn and save. On the other side, if you spend your money in cash, you might not have made or at least postponed that expensive purchase you made online so swiftly.

Stop using Credit Cards

I feel sad when I see people buying something using a credit card that their debit card otherwise wouldn’t have allowed. If this is you, stop immediately. It’s a trap that credit card companies want you to fall into so that they can make money off the interest they would earn on your purchase. If you are not able to get it, let me explain.

Since you bought something that cash in your bank account couldn’t afford so you would have definitely bought it on EMI. You made the bank happy because you are paying them interest. If you did not buy it on EMI and paid full then you might make the minimum payment for your credit card for that month as your bank balance isn’t enough to fully pay the bill. The bank is happy again as they would levy interest on the remaining bill payment every month until you pay it completely.

You won’t believe how much interest the bank charges on the remaining payment. A whopping 42% in a year. Forget the discounts and credit card rewards that pulled you into making that purchase.

It’s ironic that credit card as a product is designed for people who don’t need them. It is sold to people who should not even come close to it. Credit cards promote rampant spending behaviours luring people in the form of discounts, reward points and cashbacks. I would recommend sticking to debit cards so that you only spend what you can afford.

So these were some of the methods I followed in my life to become better at saving money and staying consistent at it too. I would highly recommend you cultivate some of these methods in your life, if not all, and see the results for yourself.

I would love to know if you have implemented any of the above strategies in your life and how they have worked for you. Also, please share any other strategies not covered in this article that you personally use that work wonders for you so that others could also benefit from them.